My new year wish

I wish I could make this 2 pretty ladies in my life the happiest people in the world.

Happy wife + happy daughter = awesome daddy!

My next car

My next car gonna be either an ev or at least a hybrid
And it is gonna be a supercar
Hehee
Hopefully not gonna be a bloody vellfire
Mpv looks ugly!

But who knows

Last time I said I will only buy sports cars..
Currently driving a crossover!
A little bit "tersimpang"

The crossover is for my princess nia. Moving around with a baby require big vehicle
A sedan is not enough
The stroller... The baby sit... The rug
Mommy's handbags...
Maybe I should buy a lorry instead...
Just throw everything inside
Hassle free!

Women deserved it

I came across this article in utusan Malaysia few days ago.
Pretty much concerning about ladies who spent a lot on cosmetic to look prettier

Honestly, I have nothing against it unlike most men who disagree when women spend a lot on cosmetic .

We all love being pretty
And being men... It is our nature , we love to see pretty ladies. Nothing new there

Hence, If ladies want to spend thousands per month on cosmetic , let them be... The deserved it. They work hard for it.. Let them have fun with it.

If men want their car to look prettier than others,
Then women wants plenty of make up as well

Everything is fine as long u r not being thrifty and spend beyond ur limit

We all deserved to be beautiful

Nia nia nia

Nia nia....
Engkaulah ratu hatiku....
Bila engkau berduka...
Daddy tido x bangun bangun..

Life as a father, has been very exciting to date
It has been thrilling... Tiring... But full of joy and happiness
Seeing my little princess growing up everyday.
Of course, comparing what mommy did and what daddy has done to nia so far.... Daddy seems to do very little
Mommy has been a great mother

It got me to realize what Allah said "syurga terletak di bawah tapak kaki ibu"
U will only understand this once u ate a parent
It is not easy to raise a baby
Nevertheless , in the end of the day... The cuteness of the baby took away all the pain

Thank you mommy for being such a wonderful mother to our little princess

Nia... Be kind to ur mommy occay darling?

Good intention and good riddance ??

Good intention and good riddance , those four words do not always come together

There are moments in life... When u do something with purely good intention... But in end of the day... U end up in the courtroom. Worse case scenario... In jail.

That is life . It sucks but it is true

For example
Life as a doctor .
People expect u to save life
And we do.. All the time
No question about that
But then,
Nobody remember how many life we have saved
Nobody keep track on that
But once u screwed up..
It will be on ur record forever and
People will remember u as a doctor who screwed up.

I knew a few doctors who refuse to take or treat critical cases
Just to keep their record clean and clear
U can't blame him
We doctors have family as well to take care of
We need to keep our job safe

Plus, in this new SPBA system, we want high marks for our skt
Hence we will get higher salary every year

It is a normal human instinct
We want to be safe before others

No one to be blame for this

The system has made our life so rigid
Everything must be done accordingly

Rules comes first... Other people life comes second

Cruel...
But we all need to keep our periuk nasi right
How I wish all doctors could work
As freely as u seen on tv... House md for example...

When "good" is not enough

Just signed the SPBA
Much has been discussed regarding the SPBA.
Some said... It brings more benefit to the government and less for the citizen like me.
Some said... It is a way to make sure that the government servants work harder
Some said.... If u have to choose between two evil.. Stick with the one u knew... The old school SSM

I signed for the SPBA
Why?
Because everyone does!
Well that would be the common answer!
Basically in the SPBA ( who those who r not working in the gov sector) it is a new system where they government want to reward the good workers and easily get rid of the bad ones

The higher ur skt marks... The higher ur salary raised..
If ur skt marks is only satisfactory... U will be given offer to quit ur job! Or the gov can fire u....

In a way.. It s a good way to improve productivity
But , does it...

Skt marks depend on ur boss. Some bosses are very good and they give skt marks to their worker.. With honestly and no bias...
Unfortunately.. Bosses are human as well.
In this system.. The bosses could easily give u bad marks and u will br out of job or u won't get ur salary increment, should ur boss hate u or u r not in a good term with ur boss...

Well.. That's the dilemma.
Fortunately my boss is a very good boss! Heheheheh
This is so true... Tiada niat untuk puji utk Dapat markah skt lebih occay..
My boss is a wise man.. He is trustworthy and I believe he gives people what they deserved.
Which is the reason why I choose to stick with SPBA and remain working at the gov hospital

HIV via tattoo???

is it possible to be infected with HIV via the tattoo's needle ?
well , that what happened to an australian tourist who went to Bali for a holiday , got a tattoo there
came back home and later on found out she/he got HIV
at least , that what he/she claimed

nonetheless...
clinically , is it possible?

let's go to the basic here. how does HIV transmitted? occay , easy as abc ...  number one.. blood to blood... mother to baby and the famous unprotected sex
then,
let's look at how tatoos being "tattooed" on human body..
they use a special needle to paint the artwork on the skin

when we talk about needle..
it's a nature of the needle to prick
and of course ,during the process of tattooing ...
the needle pricked the skin a lot..
contacted with the fat tissue.. and also small vessels
meaning.. anything from the needle.. could go inside the vessel

so , in this case..
one sunday morning..
a HIV person went to the tattoo shop
and got a tattoo on his ass..

and the next person came in into the same shop
let's say some australian tourist he is..
got a tattoo as well...

and apparently the tattoo master use the same needle as he used for the hiv infected customer
and he forgot to clean and wash the needle thoroughly ...

there was a big chance.. the second customer could get the HIV as well
easily infected from the unsterilized needle
the same one used on the HIV patient

well ,
if that the case
he's such an unfortunately guy

moral of the story , dont get any tattoo...

but then.. same scenario also could happen at the barber shop or the sallon
when the barber use the same blade for shaving...

something to think about...

Working hard to lose weight

It is hard to lose weight when u have a big appetite and live with ur mother!

Currently staying with my parent while my wife is still her confinement period.
It's a good thing for me and my wife
But not so good for my belly!

Coz there will always be plenty of food on the dinner table at every moment!

U know every mom loves to feed their child. So am I. Whenever nia is crying... I feed her milk.
So everything I went into the kitchen or pass through the kitchen , my mom thought that I am hungry. Hence she starts cooking all sort of food..
Me ended up eating like there is no tomorrow
The final result.... Obesity
Not something to be proud of indeed!

Trying hard to lose weight.
Went to the gym everyday
But still not enough to lose the excess fat!
Damn...

HIV mother

 

had a busy oncall last night at work

i was in charge of the obstetric OT

giving spinal and general anaesthesia for c section operation..

a lot of emergency cases being posted after midnite

not something i was looking for

coz honestly ,

after midnite

half of our brain has already shut down

and people become a bit cranky when they stay awake after their usual sleeping hours

occay , nothing new there

just another day at work...

at 4 am , came a case of HIV mother  , already in labour

for my readers info ,

HIV mothers are not allowed to go thru normal delivery

because we want to reduce the risk of mother to baby infection

all HIV mothers must be operated to make sure there is some chance for the baby to be HIV free

plus , all HIV mother must not breastfeed their baby as well...

so my patient , still a teenager

already has one baby when she was 14 years old

and she came for her second baby with her second husband

she claimed she got the HIV from her first husband... when she was 13

since then she was on medication for her HIV

nevertheless , for her 1st baby 4 years ago.

the baby was delivered manually...

hence , we were not sure of the status of her 1st baby...

could be a HIV positive ... and hopefully not

it was a sad story ..

and crazy as well

not sure about her second husband HIV status

but her husband claimed to be HIV negative

which is impossible

then before the operation started

i popped the big question to the couple..

do u still want more children after this????

u are HIV positive... and giving birth to another children..

well .... not the best idea

since u are struggling with ur disease

how are u gonna take care of the baby

what if ur baby turned out to be HIV positive as well?

pity the baby right?

we gave all the meds available on earth to make sure the baby delivered last night not infected

but the risk is still there

and we would not know the result of the baby HIV status immediately...

it's such a complicated situation

SHOULD people who are HIV positive   conceived babies?

what will happened to their baby?

they cant breastfeed them

and when the baby grows up .. what would he or she felt , when he found out he got HIV from their parent...

God goodness..

this is beyond my imagination

nite2 guys

Vitamin c plus collagen

Anyone interested ? Do privately contact me via email or facebook occay :)

She calms me down

Works, stressed me out all the time...
But lately I have found the cure and the remedy for that..
Whenever I feel so stressed at work..
I took out my iPhone and browse thru nia's photo..
Always makes me smile
Always makes me laugh..

Thanks mommy... Nia is the best thing happened to us...

Best ever anniversary gift

They said that diamond and gold are women best friends
I used to think that was crap and women love other things than those bling bling thingy
Nonetheless as I grow older and more mature
I come to a conclusion that the saying is so damn true
Nothing has changed ever since

Gold and diamond always bring smile to the ladies... Big big smile of course...
Am I right dear ladies? Hehehhe

Hence she got hers during our anniversary .
It s a token of my appreciation of what she has done for me..
A way of saying " thank you for being my wife "
Some said action speak louder than words
In my case , gold definitely speaks the loudest .

Then , mommy asked daddy
" what do u want for ur anniversary present daddy? "

Daddy said " don't worry, I already got mine.... She is currently pooping on daddy.... Nia is the best gift ever ! , thank you mommy :) "

Nia got injected!

We went to the clinic yesterday for nia immunization .
My goodness, there were so many babies there..
The waiting line was agonizingly long..

Worse case scenario... The doctor was on leave as well... Can't blame her... She is the only doctor at the clinic and she needs rest as well

Luckily , I know the clinic very well as I was supposed to be transferred there previously, but one way or another... I decided not to go...
Long story short... The staffs also knows me very well..
In view of the long que, mommy herself injected nia while daddy was holding her tight

We took preventive measure to make sure that nia was pain free during the injection.... Remember that I am an anaesthetist...pretty good at dealing with pain...

Nia was hardly crying during the injection... Just one tiny scream and she was ok already.... Thank you Allah... After the injection... She was doing well... No crying.... And until this morning ... Alhamdulillah... No fever.....

From sweden with love!

Another coincidence...

We were not planning to give each other these on our anniversary,
It so happened that these precious box arrived all the way from sweden this afternoon while we were out.

So happy to see this white box on the table as we reached home.
Very nice wrapping
Carefully packaged... 5 star to strawberry.net
First class delivery and service
And above everything....
Love the smell of the perfumes

Burberry for daddy
Incanto for mommy!

Definitely, 18 of December brought a lot of joy to us
Thank you Allah.
God bless us all.

And may nia sleep well tonite

Nia is 30 days old

Today is nia's 30th days of life...
Going out for immunization at the local clinic....
And also.... Today is our anniversary ..

What a coincidence - a good one
Daddy can kill two birds with one stone today!

No nia... Daddy is not going to kill any bird.... It is a metaphor ...

Don't cry too loud k nia...
Daddy nak inject sket Je ni...

owh mak cik , what have u done!

one of the challenge working as a doctor  ;
is dealing with patient who believe hospital is the last resort

many patients, mostly the malay ethnic
more commonly in kelantan
prefer to seek treatment from bomoh whenever they fall sick
or something happened to their body

case and point happened to me at the clinic today

a makcik brought her 4 month old baby
with impetigo , and infected wound all over the body
something like the photo above

me : mak cik , when does it started to become like this?
mak cik ; eh.... baru saje.... semalam baru makcik perasan..
me : mak cik , please dont lie to me , i am a doctor.. i know what i see
mak cik : dah lama dah sebenarnya... dah dekat sebulan... mula sket jer.. pastu makin teruk

me : then , why dont u come to the doctor earlier? x kesian kat anak u ke dah jadi mcm ni...
mak cik : mak cik pergi jumpe bomoh... bomoh kasi air tawar... lepas seminggu 2 makin teruk baru mak cik bawak datang sini...
me : kesian anak mak cik ni... dah teruk sgt. .. dah kene jumpe pakar kulit...  x tau bole pulih ke x nanti ...
mak cik ; tu la mak cik bawak dtg sini nak ambik ubat la...
me : apsal mak cik x pergi follow up dengan bomoh jer? bomoh pakar xde ke?

well, this is the attitude of our people
still believe in bomoh
still believe that bad health caused by the black spirit
for crying out loud

please come to the doctor first,
then if we cannot treat u ...
then go find ur bomoh
not otherwise

the best part of this cases..
when these people come to the doctors at the terminal stage of the disease
some of them , died at the hospital
then these people started to blame doctors for their relative ill fated.
ridiculous indeed!

I am keeping it !

Sometimes we made decision ...
That we are going to regret so much in the future.

Last month I wanted to sell my red bumble bee...

The reasons?...
None of the is valid

After a long thought....
I decided not to sell it
This is my first car ,
And I love it...
It is a part of me
It is associated with me
Some people knows me coz I was driving this car
I made so many friend in the car club
I had so much fun with the car...
It is something priceless
Hence... I am keeping the car


I had a few good offers for car
Some were too good to refuse
But everytime when I meet with the buyer and people are test driving my car...
I felt a part of me was taken away

Some said, it was not a smart decision to keep the car
A car is a liability , not an asset
It need maintainance ...
Regularly
And it costs a lot of money...

So what..
I have money ( not that much actually)
I love my car
I am loyal to it
Bumble is here... To stay...


Heheheheheh

Open letter to mommy nia

Dear mommy nia,

Daddy knows that nia is at not his best behavior right now
She has been crying a lot..
Keep u and mama awake all night long...

Daddy knows that mommy has been working hard to take care of nia
Daddy knows that mommy is doing her best to make sure nia grows up healthy

Mommy has been pumping her breast milk 24/7 to make sure nia gets the best milk in the world.


Daddy also knows sometimes mommy felt very tired
And frustrated at times as nia keeps crying non stop
Mommy has been doing superb job as a mother so far and daddy really appreciate that

Daddy knows that daddy has not been around a lot
Daddy is working hard for our family
Make sure that mommy and nia get the best in life

Once nia is old enough to travel around... We will go a wonderful holiday .

Daddy knows that mommy is so damn bored staying at home for the past one month.

Soon daddy will take mommy n nia out occay...
Daddy knows mommy loves shopping a lot.
In fact daddy has been working hard to make sure mommy gets whatever she wants to.


Dear mommy.... Above everything... Daddy loves u the most
Please remember that

And nia , when u are older and knows how to read... Please remember all the hard work mommy has put for u
Be a good girl.

owh my God... am I that famous...

owh my God...
honestly  , never thought this will happen to me...
am i that famous?
just found out that a guy has been using my picture and info
and created a fake facebook account
worse case scenario
he's been using it to court girls

u must be kidding me..

when i heard the news
i was wondering why the heck is he using my pics and info
of all the people in the world

he's been using my profile..
telling other that he's a bloody doctor
looking for a girl to be his wife
apparently he's divorced in his profile
cheap way to get women falling into his arms

bloody hell
now i am considering making police report...
this kind of people has make something fun such as facebook
turned into something scary and dangerous as well

Vitamin c injection

Dear readers,
What do think about vitamin c injection? Any of u have tried the injection ?


I am doing a research regarding the vitamin c injection.
Kindly share ur experience here please

It is a very common procedure nowadays ,
Nothing to be shame about
It's not against the law
And it is not against the religion as well.


Medically, the only reported side effect from the vitamin c injection was the infection from the injection site...
Which is caused by improper injection technique , not by the vitamin itself.


So please share the info here guys!

Thank you a lot in advance!